
Principles are natural’s law that cannot be broken, Principles are territory, values are map. A paradigm shift is how we saw / behave / through differently. There are 2 map in our paradigm, one is the way things are and the way things should be.

Both approach is not helping us to reach the destination. A wrong paradigm is like a wrong map, you can try harder (change your behavior) – you can get to the wrong location faster or you can be more positive (change your attitude) which you still be happy while you can’t find the destination. “The price must be paid and process followed.”Ī paradigm is a model / perception that the lens we use to “view” the world. Problem on focusing on technique is like crawling thru school, is hard to achieve mastery and the lack of depth inside it. However date back to 150 years ago, self-help is more on character ethics / principles. The book cover from personnel development, work management to relationship management.įirst off the author point out for the past 50 years, self-help is more on quick fix or little smart techniques. One of the all-time classic for self-improvement.
